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Ryan,
Please add us to your list of people who will pray for her, for you and family. I can only guess at the heart break that all of you are going through. Please keep us all here at the BTF informed with updates on this.
Galatiians 6:9 So don't get tired of doing what is good. Don't get discouraged and give up, for we will reap a harvest of blessing at the appropriate time.
No matter what happens to that girl all the good your family has done will have an effect. Things happen for a reason. Maybe this is what the mother needs to get right?
Hang tough.
Ryan,
That sucks my friend. Of course you and your family are in my prayers.
Jon
It seems that your MIL never did what she needed to do to make this arrangement "legal". While she had all the best of intentions, she never had the standing to challenge the real mother.
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Originally Posted by dogboysdad
This is often the case in these arrangements. Of course, even when things are made "legal" I've seen the birth parents regain custody and even when the birth parent don't regain the custody, they cost the "adoptive" parents a fortune.
Ryan, ours prayers are with you.
I don't know what has been previously done, but has the Dept of children & youth been contacted ? Sometimes they can pull the kids out of places with the type of conditions you described.
That is so sad, shows how messed up our system really is. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and Meghan.
Yeah,that is the problem.Even though She signed Her rights away and abandoned Her,the biological Father refused and then became a heroin addict and then disappeared.My inlaws tried to legally adopt,but were never able to because He would not sign Her away.Quote:
Originally Posted by dogboysdad
They then hired one of the best Lawyers around these parts that specializes in such things,and the district Judge granted Them custody..NOW,out of nowhere He reverses it with no hearing(but They knew)and She is gone.Something really smells like rotten fish here and has taken away all faith I have in this system...
btw,Child welfare services told Us flat out They are not so much concerned with the child's welfare,but keeping children with Their biological parents.
Thanks all for the prayers and support.You Guys are the best.
Your Grace
The prayers and good thoughts of my family are with your family and Meghan.
Mike